Happily Ever After by Martin & Debbie Raj
Our podcast centers on our journey through marriage. We aim to be raw and authentic, sharing how we navigate conflicts and strive to be a blessing to one another. "Happily Ever After" isn’t just a dream—it’s a reality that can be achieved when both partners commit to working together through the highs and lows. Join us on this journey as we inspire each other with Real love, real faith, and real growth.
Episodes
21 episodes
Ep 21 - Our Interracial Marriage - Our Wedding on a Budget
Getting married these days is one of the most significant investments in life. Some choose to invest in a fancy wedding, while others prioritize meaningful connections—or a mix of both. In this episode, we share our wedding experience, what mat...
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Episode 21
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Ep 20 - Arranged vs Love Marriage Pt2 - Our Interracial Marriage
One of the most common questions people ask is whether arranged marriage still exists in India and what I (Martin) think about it. Some have even asked if we had an arranged marriage according to Indian tradition or a love marriage according to...
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Episode 20
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45:56
Ep 19 - Arranged vs Love Marriage - Our Interracial Marriage
One of the most common questions people ask is whether arranged marriage still exists in India and what I (Martin) think about it. Some have even asked if we had an arranged marriage according to Indian tradition or a love marriage according to...
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Episode 19
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35:07
Ep 18 - Raising Children pt 2 - Facing Racism
Racism isn’t confined to one place or one group—it exists in every corner of the world, even within the same race. Society has shown us the harsh realities of division from Africa to India to Korea and beyond. But the real question is: how do w...
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Episode 18
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Rp 17 - Our Interracial Marriage - Raising Children Pt 1
Raising children has been a major topic in our relationship from the very beginning—and it still is after marriage. In this episode, we share our initial feelings on having kids and how we see it right now, what people have counseled us regardi...
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Episode 17
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Ep 16 - Our Interracial Marriage - Entertainment & Recreation
Even though we grew up on different continents and in different cultures, what truly shaped our lives were our family values, personal choices, and surrounding influences. In this episode, we get real about how these factors impacted our...
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Episode 16
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Ep 15 - Our Interracial Marriage - PDA
Public Displays of Affection: How Much is Too Much? 🤔💑PDA means different things across cultures, families, and even relationships—some embrace it, while others avoid it completely. In this episode, we dive into our first impressions of...
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Episode 15
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Ep 14 - Our Interracial Marriage - Communication
In this episode of Our Interracial Marriage, we talk about the ways of communication in our cultures. We share how we had misunderstandings because of our preconceived ideas, fear and how we came to understand each other through it all.
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Episode 14
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Ep 13 - Our Interracial Marriage - Language Special
In this episode of Our Interracial Marriage, we talk about the fascinating world of languages in our relationship. We share the languages we grew up speaking, how our multilingual backgrounds impact our communication, and the beautiful (and som...
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Episode 13
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Ep 12 - Curry Meets Chimichurri
Growing up in different countries and cultures has given us unique stories to share. From eating with our hands to enjoying spicy dishes, trying Asian cuisine, and debating sweet versus savory breakfasts, we’ve experienced a lot. Join us on thi...
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Episode 12
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Ep 11 - Our Interracial Marriage
There are unique experiences and expectations that come with being in an interracial marriage. From country and state culture to community and family traditions, culture plays a significant role in shaping our journey. We took a heartfelt trip ...
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Episode 11
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Ep 10 - Keeping Marriage Fun
Marriage is a journey you shape together, and one of the best ways to keep it vibrant is by adding a little fun along the way. In this episode of Happily Ever After, we share practical ideas and personal stories about how doing fun activities t...
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Episode 10
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Ep 9 - Money Matters
Money plays a significant role in every stage of life—whether you're single or married. It has the power to be a blessing that strengthens relationships or a curse that causes division.In this video, we open up about our personal experi...
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Episode 9
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Ep 8 - Some people won’t like you for this: the freedom of saying “no!”
Do you ever feel like you can’t say “no” to others without fear of rejection or conflict? Have you ever been ignored, ridiculed, or even avoided after giving an honest “no”? This is because boundaries reveal the true nature of those around us—t...
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Episode 8
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Ep 7 - Managing Family in Marriage Part 2
Join us as we continue to share our experiences navigating family dynamics in marriage. Life shifts in significant ways—from living with your parents to having your own space and then transitioning to sharing that space with your spouse. These ...
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Episode 7
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Ep 6 - Happily Ever After - Managing Family in Marriage
Join us as we share our experiences on navigating family dynamics in marriage. Life shifts in significant ways—from living with your parents to having your own space and then transitioning to sharing that space with your spouse. These changes c...
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Episode 6
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Ep 5 - Expectations vs Reality - Happily Ever After
We always have some expectations before marriage. Some may become a reality, and many don't. In this episode, we discuss our expectations and whether reality met them or not. #MarriageExpectations #RelationshipReality #HealthyRelationsh...
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Episode 5
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Ep 4 - Happily Ever After - 3 Things I Wish I knew When I Was Single
If we could go back to our single days, what are three things we wish we knew? In this episode of Happily Ever After, we're sharing them with you. What’s something we assumed incorrectly? What’s a common piece of advice that turns out to be a m...
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Episode 4
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36:49
Ep 3 - Happily Ever After - Disappointments & Pet Peeve
Let’s face it—we all have our share of disappointments and those little things that get under our skin. In this episode of Happily Ever After, we get real about what disappoints us and the pet peeves that show up in our marriage. From learning ...
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Episode 3
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29:26
Ep 2 - Happily Ever After - Our Love Story - How it Started
In this episode, we continue to share more about us and how we ended up together. Basically, our love journey! If you love romantic stories you will love this episode.#HappilyEverAfterPodcast #AboutUs #OurStory #RelationshipJourney #Chr...
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Episode 2
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Ep 1 - Happily Ever After - Our Childhood’s Impact in Marriage
We are excited to welcome you to Happily Ever After. Here we share the real, raw journey of building a Christ-centered relationship. We’re not perfect, but we’re learning, growing, and figuring it out together—and we’re here to help you do the ...
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Episode 1
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